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A 2-minute quiz that reveals your attachment style and love language — then finds the tee that says it for you.

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The Collection

Four attachment styles, Five love languages, One you.

SECURE — NEEDS BOUNDARIES, STILL ALL IN
Front · Secure
Same Secure model, Words of Affirmation back: I SAY LOVE OUT LOUD
Back · Words of Affirmation

SECURE

$49.99

V-Neck · Black

NEEDS BOUNDARIES, STILL ALL IN

ANXIOUS — NEEDS CLOSENESS, STILL STRONG
Front · Anxious
Same Anxious model, Quality Time back: I DO NOTHING & EVERYTHING WITH YOU
Back · Quality Time

ANXIOUS

$49.99

V-Neck · White

NEEDS CLOSENESS, STILL STRONG

FEARFUL AVOIDANT — NEEDS SLOW, STILL WANTS INTIMACY
Front · Fearful Avoidant
Same Fearful Avoidant model, Acts of Service back: I SHOW UP
Back · Acts of Service

FEARFUL AVOIDANT

$49.99

Crew · White

NEEDS SLOW, STILL WANTS INTIMACY

AVOIDANT — NEEDS SPACE, STILL CARES

AVOIDANT

$49.99

Crew · Black

NEEDS SPACE, STILL CARES

Avoidant white T shirt: NEEDS SPACE, STILL CARES. Optional Leo on the left sleeve, while moving a dresser in New York.
Front · Avoidant
Same city model back, Quality Time: I DO NOTHING & EVERYTHING WITH YOU. Lifting the dresser up brownstone steps.
Back · Quality Time
Fearful Avoidant model in a new side pose, showing the optional Aries print on his left sleeve
Fearful Avoidant · Optional Aries left sleeve. Tap the photo to enlarge.
Premium Signature Hoodie front, Fearful Avoidant: NEEDS SLOW, STILL WANTS INTIMACY, with Aquarius on the left sleeve
Front · Fearful Avoidant · Aquarius left sleeve
Premium Signature Hoodie back, Acts of Service: I SHOW UP
Back · Acts of Service

Our Signature Orange

The Premium Signature Hoodie

This is not our classic hoodie in a new color. It is a different garment entirely: substantial 372 GSM cotton rich fabric with a softly structured hand, an oversized silhouette, dropped shoulders, and premium ribbed cuffs and hem. It feels weightier, holds its shape beautifully, and gives every personalized message a more elevated finish.

Made from 80% cotton and 20% polyester, with two way stretch and a soft touch. The fabric is woven and dyed, and the garment is made in Mexico.

372 GSM · Oversized fit · Soft touch · Sizes 2XS to 6XL

Shown in Fearful Avoidant with Acts of Service and optional Aquarius on the left sleeve.

The As We Are 20 oz mug shown from two angles: attachment-style wording on one side, love-language wording on the other

Two views of one personalised mug. Example: Anxious + Physical Touch.

The matching mug · Available now · $24.99 standalone

Two sides. One you.

Make it a set. Your attachment-style wording on one side and your love-language wording on the other, personalised to match the T-shirt or hoodie you choose. Same signature typeface, now for your morning coffee.

A generous 20 oz white ceramic mug. No zodiac print. Choose any attachment style and love language. Available by itself for $24.99, or personalise one to match each person in your apparel order.

Buy one garment

$22.49

10% off each qualifying matching mug

Buy two or more

$19.99

20% off matching mugs

Available to everyone for $24.99. Automatically save 10% on a mug with one garment, or 20% on matching mugs with two or more garments in the same Shopify cart. Customer pays shipping separately. Mug blank sourced from China.

Personalise My Mug

A single wraparound sublimation print carries your two selected messages. No zodiac or extra print charge.

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